There is an admonition
in NLP that says, "if you keep doing what you have always done,
you keep getting what you have always gotten." But perhaps we don't
really have a choice about that. Perhaps the conflicts, the scrabbling
for territory - whether it is the kind of territory that we can
hold in our hands, or hold In our bodies, or hold In our brains
- will continue to mark our time here. Perhaps, it is fundamental
to our nature, and we cannot do otherwise. We can only learn better
coping strategies. Perhaps we are sophisticated animals - no less
and no more. We cloak our instinctual urges, but they are there
nonetheless. and always will be.
Perhaps. But before we capitulate to the (comfortably) familiar,
we ought to first consider that what we have been talking about
IS the water we swim in now. And, so, it seems it is as it must
be, as It can only be. We are animals, but let's not take the conceptual
leap then of assuming that is all we are. The fact that we can make
such conceptual leaps is evidence that it Is NOT all we are. Language
changes everything. The ability to conceptualize through language
creates levels of abstraction and complexity that make us different
than animals in some very fundamental ways. (Notice that I did not
say better then; but different.) Now of course a lot of grief and
misery has come with our leap of language, and some folks would
just as soon we step back into an existence without it. Not me.
Language is one of the grand portals Into worlds of experience.
As Graham quipped, "Words are the forceps of experience." If you
want to see a real miracle, watch someone reading a book. Just watch.
As you do, consider what you are witnessing; a person is scanning
marks on a page, and those marks are turning into a trip down river
with Huck and Tom, or into matter condensing out of the void in
the universe's first tenth of a second, or into the smiling thoughts
of the Dali Lama. Perhaps we can use that same ability - in new
and transformative ways - to conceive of what is possible for us
as human beings, to dip ourselves Into some different waters. What
could those waters be? And how might we begin to get nicely wet?
To paraphrase Shakespeare, experience is all. The scientist seeing
tracks of particles in a cloud chamber is having an experience,
and his experience is no more or less real and full and meaningful
than that of the touch of a loving hand upon your own or the wordless
ecstasy of a mystic feeling the presence of god. There is, in a
very real sense, nothing outside of experience. Certainty there
may be worlds that exist outside of our experience, but the moment
we know of them, they are an experience. Or perhaps another way
to think of this is that we bring worlds into existence through
experience. In fact, this is what I believe. This is real. You are
real. This room is real. Our experiences are real. They are not,
however, the only possible realities. Perhaps we are holding this
room together with our shared realities. I don't know. I really
don't know if we could join our perceptual hands In some new way
right now and have this ceiling dissolve into a pinwheel of golden
stars... Rats... Well, right now I do not know how to do that. In
fact the only thing on that list that I do know can be changed is
experience. We know that for us as Individuals. And certainly the
work that you have been doing as researchers and practitioners of
NLP has been - and continues to be - a source of experiential change
and personal transformation for countless people.
When I was 10 years old, my parents took me to a movie called.
"The Flower Drum Song." I saw this movie only once, and remember
nothing about It, except for one song. As I recall the scene, someone
was complaining about life, then someone else launched into a song
whose refrain was, "A hundred million miracles... a hundred million
miracles ... are happening every day!" That grabbed me at the time
and, as you can see, stayed with me. Now with that little story
(hopefully) greasing my way, I will now commit a bit of NLP heresy.
Like the proverbial moth to the flame, I am naturally drawn to committing
heresies. Despite the heat, I think this particular heresy is worth
a closer look.
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