Step #3 Teach
Relaxation Response ( teach the induction and practice
it with them)
OK, let's begin. Ready? You know, the national Institute of Health
recently recommended Meditation, Bio-feedback ad Hypnosis for stress
relief and pain reduction. We've found that a similar method of
mental conditioning and relaxation will reduce your stress and allow
you to be calm and relaxed, thus reducing you need
for drugs and will speed your recovery time.
NOW, its a very simple and straight forward method that we use
here because we've eliminated any extraneous bells and whistles
and streamlined the process for maximum effectiveness and ease of
use. That way you'll remember to do it for yourself
and enjoy positive results. Sound good? Great.
So what we'll do is learn the technique first, practice it a bit
so you feel comfortable with it, and then see how
you can use it. This is how it goes: I'm going to count to 3. On
1, close your eyes... At 2, with your eyes closed, look up as if
you're trying to see the inside of your head... And as you keep
looking up there, take a deep breath in and hold it for a count
of three...1 - 2 - 3. and at three, just let go... exhale, let your
eyes relax and let your body go all limp, like a rag doll, loose
and lazy-like, your limbs heavy - that's right. O.K.? Any questions?
Great lets try it again for practice.............................(Repeat above process)
OK, one more time for good luck................(Repeat again)
Step #4 Utilization of the Trance ( future pace
use of relaxation response, ego strengthening suggestions, direct
and indirect, metaphors for endpoints)
And now you can just stay relaxed this time, and I'll tell you
a few things that are important. You'll hear everything you need
to hear, and remember everything you need to remember. In your mind's
eye, I'd like you to go to a comfortable place that you find relaxing.
A place where you can goof off, cool out and regroup. For some people,
this could be a body of water like a lake or the ocean, it could
be a garden, or your favorite room; it could be real or totally
imaginary. So when I say your "comfort place," I mean a safe, peaceful
place, enjoying yourself, totally free from responsibility, just
goofing off, relaxing. Doing nothing or whatever it is you like.
Be there now, and with every breath, get more and more in touch
with that place. See all the beauty that's there through your own
eyes as you are there now, the sky if you are outside, what ever
setting is there if you are inside. Hear all the sounds that you
would hear there, the sounds of the water, or the birds singing,
or whatever is true for you at your particular place. Touch your
surroundings. What does it feel like? Use all your senses, are there
any fragrances there that you enjoy? Feel the good feelings of being
there now fully, and thoroughly enjoy how good that makes you feel.
And as you continue to relax, you don't even have to pay attention
consciously to my words, you can just listen to the sound of my
voice, and rest assured that part of your mind will continue
to listen, to record and utilize any and every positive suggestion,
...thought, ...idea, that I offer you. And you can forget about
anything for a time. You can forget what feels bad, when
you think about something else. And its reassuring to recognize
that that is what your imagination is for, and you've been doing
that your whole life. Like daydreaming in school. The teacher teaching
2+2=4, 4+4=8, etc. and your mind is thinking about being outside
playing baseball or something. Your body can be here, but you can
be somewhere else. And that can be useful. If you're waiting to
be seen, you can be quietly off enjoying whatever you want, until
you're needed. The staff all know what this is about and will help
you to be as comfortable as you need to be. In fact, every
time you see a nurse or doctor, that will deepen your experience
of sailing comfortably through this - easily trans-porting
yourself through. And when you hear the different machines, noises
and voices around you, those sounds will also serve to deepen and
expand all the internal experiences you can have. And you can be
curious about just what will happen next in there, and wonder about
it all, so easily, lazily - just goofing off.
Sometimes sights or sounds that are unusual at first can become
routine and normal, even expected and comforting. As an example,
I have a friend who lives next to a highway, and for him the traffic
sounds have become like the sounds of waves at the beach. In the
same way, when you hear the beeps and motors of the monitor, you
can drift ever more comfortably, ever more deeply into your healing,
stress-free state. And when you see a nurse, you can go even more
thoroughly to a place of peace and calm, away form any distractions.
Everything in the recovery room will remind you that you
are being well cared for and caring for yourself from head to toe.
You can even have these responses when you are awake. That will
be nice, won't it? What a nice surprise, to discover that you can
relax any time you want and know that all is as it should be.
You know that's a good thing for the rest of your life too, to
change negatives on the outside to positives on the inside. And
go to your deepest resource, to Internal peace and quiet - the people
and things that are important to you. Now... you enjoy this experience.
You'll have all the time you need - you know, a moment of pleasure
can last for hours - and time stands still, when you need it to.
Next thing you know, you're walking out of here under your own steam.
During the surgery, you can relay on your abilities, your natural
biological abilities, that everyone has, and you have too, to keep
the bleeding to a minimum... just enough to keep the incisions and
the area that the doctor works in, clean and fresh, bringing just
the right amount of oxygen. Your body knows how to do this. And
your body knows how to bleed and how to stop bleeding - you've done
it hundreds of times in the past. You've maybe cut yourself shaving
[(skinned your knee, paper cut, cut while cooking, etc.)] and that
bleeding stopped. You can ask yourself to provide just the right
amount to help the doctor's work and then just the right amount
for healing, recovery and your everyday need. Your body knows how
to do this, it does it all the time - Like everything else, it is
nice to be asked, so ask your body to provide this help.
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